About an year back I was standing in one of those loooong
never ending lines at the Passport office to get my passport renewed, brooding
about how in spite of technology and online application etc one still had to
stand in long queues to ultimately get things done. Brooding done, I got to
doing what I did, in most such circumstances.... observing People. As always, most were glued to their cell phones...doing something or the other.
And then there was this small boy (must have been around 4
to 5 years old) who had come in with his mother and while she was waiting her
turn in the line, he was busy running around the lines climbing on the bench,
jumping down, making noises etc etc. Seeing the looks from people who seemed
quite unhappy from being disturbed from their cell phone screens, the mother
tried scolding him, making him stand with her while tightly clutching his hand
but he clearly didn't quite like the idea. So he started making even louder
noises. Then his mother took out her cell phone, put on a game and gave it to
him. That did it. Worked like a charm. He took the phone, went to the bench and
sat quietly on the corner playing the game for the next 30 minutes. And people
got back to burying themselves in their cell phone screens.
That reminded me of how I had seen this happen at homes, in
the super market, buses and all sorts of places. Want the kids quiet and out everyone's
hair? Put on their favorite TV show or game or video on the nearest screen, be
it the TV, Tablet or Cell phone and voila! Job done.
Yes, I know how a lot of us - specially those brought up in
the era of no TV, or single channel TV, and land lines that mostly dialed wrong
numbers, don't quite agree with the idea of children spending so much time in
front of or with back-lit screens. The American Academy of Pediatrics recommends
against any media exposure before the age of 2. And like any other research
while some says the exposure is bad even later, others show how playing games etc increase
hand eye coordination among kids etc etc.. There are studies new and old and
articles on it and those interested can read some of them here...
http://hamptonroads.com/2014/04/study-more-screen-time-leads-fussier-children
http://www.wired.com/2014/10/video-game-literacy/
http://www.pbs.org/parents/childrenandmedia/article-faq.html
http://news.stanford.edu/news/2013/march/games-education-tool-030113.html
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/10/01/children-tv-exposure-study_n_1923719.html?ir=India
http://www.usnews.com/news/articles/2013/11/26/how-virtual-games-can-help-struggling-students-learn
http://www.cbsnews.com/news/background-television-at-home-may-be-harming-us-kids-development/
http://www.aap.org/en-us/about-the-aap/aap-press-room/Pages/Kids-in-U-S-Exposed-to-4-Hours-of-Daily-Background-TV.aspx
But l am not here to pass any judgement on this as am not an expert, and, that's not the point of this blog. Let's face it. Children today are exposed to more and more digital devices and also seem more quick to learn to use these and are in fact at times more adept to learning how to use them than most of us. Struggling how to use the new cell phone, or remote or computer or any other digital device? ask the nearest kid and they will sort it for you.
http://hamptonroads.com/2014/04/study-more-screen-time-leads-fussier-children
http://www.wired.com/2014/10/video-game-literacy/
http://www.pbs.org/parents/childrenandmedia/article-faq.html
http://news.stanford.edu/news/2013/march/games-education-tool-030113.html
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/10/01/children-tv-exposure-study_n_1923719.html?ir=India
http://www.usnews.com/news/articles/2013/11/26/how-virtual-games-can-help-struggling-students-learn
http://www.cbsnews.com/news/background-television-at-home-may-be-harming-us-kids-development/
http://www.aap.org/en-us/about-the-aap/aap-press-room/Pages/Kids-in-U-S-Exposed-to-4-Hours-of-Daily-Background-TV.aspx
But l am not here to pass any judgement on this as am not an expert, and, that's not the point of this blog. Let's face it. Children today are exposed to more and more digital devices and also seem more quick to learn to use these and are in fact at times more adept to learning how to use them than most of us. Struggling how to use the new cell phone, or remote or computer or any other digital device? ask the nearest kid and they will sort it for you.
Most parents I spoke to, limit the usage. They keep the exposure moderate ensuring kids get enough of other real life exposure too.
So one can limit time for ensuring moderation, but what is
actually more difficult, is to moderate content. It's not only 'How much' but
also 'What' that's important and that needs to be monitored. What are the kids
doing? what are they watching? What are they getting exposed to? Is it helping
in any way? Is it harmful? What is appropriate for what age? The "What"
question needs parental intervention and lots of time.
The kid at the passport office was playing a game on the
cell phone but the game most likely was pre-selected by his mother. At some point the
mother or the father would have searched for the right content, screened it,
judged if it is appropriate for the kid and then saved or downloaded the same
for their kid. And I thought WoW!!! Parents today have it a lot tougher than our parents. There are Millions of videos
on You Tube and videos, games & apps on the app stores. Hats off today's
parents who can search, view, judge appropriateness and download content and
then monitor its usage too!!!! Means... come on!!! I find it difficult to
search and find the right apps for myself given the sheer numbers out there.
And to do that for a kid would mean being much more vigilant and in the know!!!
These parents must be super Dudes!!! Or Super Dads and Moms. And I guess they
are.
A few months later I was meeting my friend and CEO of one of
India's leading Mobile Media companies. Knowing that he was the father of two
small kids, I asked him if he was a super dad too. He said "Oh!! That's
why we are developing India's first app store for kids." (You can read his blog on this here) And my immediate
response was "App store for Kids??? Really???" He explained that it was not really for kids
but for parents to be able to find age appropriate, videos, games and apps for
their kids, that would not only help entertain but also educate kids. Not only
have they gathered all kinds of content from around the world but they also took
on board some experts to help segregate the content based on age and learning areas.
The store I believe is now launched and has scores of content just for kids up to the age of 6.
The Greek philosopher Plato was right, again - Necessity is the mother of invention. So for
all you super Moms & Dad's out there, Appystore.in is here to help you.
Would love to hear from parents on their experience with
kids and technology and their views on the same. Do write in your comments and
share.